Thanks to the databases that the Gloucester County Historical Society is putting online, I was able to obtain a death date for Mary V. WARE , wife of Uriah and mother of George W. WARE . I sent away for her death certificate, and it confirmed that her last name was indeed COLEMAN , as my grandfather had indicated in the brief notes that have passed to me. Mary's parents were Jacob and Rebecca COLEMAN . My grandfather's notes also indicate that one of the Colemans lived 1799-1899, and I am surmising that it was Rebecca, who I found in the 1880 census , although the dates don't match up perfectly. Lots more to investigate here.
Conrad Todd Garrison Carman